Self love is a very quiet process and it is the silence that will reveal most answers for you. Self love is a process where you can relax into your own true being. Not pushing, not pursuing some goal, and not wanting to do something 'just because'. Not at all. It is only establishing a space within yourself for your true colors to emerge. And that's a power of authentic transformation. Quite a power!
Relaxing into your inner space that allows you to just be, to embrace your being and every aspect of it, you don't need to pretend anymore to be who you are not, or to try to be someone who you really are not, you don't need to try to belong or whatever it is…and all of the sudden, the grips of control you've established for yourself starts to fall apart. The field of love that you are bathing in shows you all that you are not and it faces you with whatever is still present that wants to be freed from your system. It faces you with your raw soul truth and once you allow it to emerge, accept it and integrate it into your whole being…, you begin to understand the simplicity of life and the new paradigm of being. Relaxing into who you are, takes you into journey ever deeper. You see your real roots, you get to really feel your essence and get to know who you are, and you are forever transformed by it. You don't need to analyze yourself into pieces any more; you don't need to do anything in particular except be present in your own being. Suddenly the doors into the very core of intimacy open.
Intimacy is not just about sex. It is you coming into the truth with yourself. The whole truth. Truth is raw, down to earth and it strips you bare naked. You are not who you think you are. Who you are is who you are. Nothing more and nothing less. Conscious in it and in peace with it. There lies the whole treasure of deep living. With this deep intimacy within yourself and life, you suddenly open the doors for new kind of relationship. You can relate with others the same way as you've done it with yourself. You open more to differences. You open yourself more to whatever presents in relationships. You don't back down anymore. You don't withhold. You don't cut away. You don't just say things, point to something and go. You don’t even talk about it, since the vibration within you speaks the only truth. Whatever presents for you, you stay present in it, open even more, you observe yourself in it, embrace all that arises or presents for you and you observe how the field of love works by itself and how it raises the vibrations of all who join into it. You allow the love to establish the space between us. You are done with focus only on yourself; you are ready to bring this field of love from within to outside. You allow to open and to stay open even in the situations where you'd usually step back or hide or go away. Without any judgment, thought constructs, hidden agendas or expectations. You just let your heart open and love even more. The field of love is safe space, so the need to protection or the need to cling to your walls simply melts away. All protection and control burns in the fires of love.
You start to observe how the field of love is transforming everyone that is holding it together. You start to observe the new power of 'WE' space. You see how the depth of relationship (every relationship, be it friendship, partnership and of course, love relationship…) reaches totally new level and you start to notice how it feels when you are met, embraced and accepted for who you really are in company of others, very different, but unique togetherness. You see how the field of love that is established between those few ready to go really deep together, transforms not only everybody holding it together, but also everybody that steps into this field and how this field embraces all with a healing presence of deepest kind. You cannot go for less anymore. ‘We space’ has the power that is not even describable, it goes beyond the known. This is a catalyzing power for profound and quick transformation of individual and of collective. It raises consciousness to totally new level. It is a new pillar of community and it represents the true power of being connected in essence.
The field of love is the new paradigm of our evolution, the true art of being and it is the very core of our new era. We've never been able to rich such depth in ourselves and in our relationships together as we are having the opportunity now. And once you have an experience of it, your soul blueprint activates. You will not be able to forget it. It is a blueprint imprinted in your body cells and it will show you the way toward real service to life. It is only in this way that we will be ready to go forward with the evolution (in every aspect of our ecosystem: universal, planetary and social) beyond the known and live in the new era that has come to our planet.
Establishing the fields of love is our important task right now, since these spaces can catalyze us into new way of human relating by meeting us where we are and how we are. It is the new paradigm, the unity and comm-unity, that our present is stepping into and our best version of future is founded with. It is the only way forward if we want to fully embody the highest potential of human consciousness and evolve together with our planet.